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Defiant

Strategies for helping a child with the arousal regulation problem of being defiant include:
  • Limit choices
    Example: Which of these two toys would you like to play with now? (NOT) What toy do you want?
    Example: Do you want milk or water to drink with snacks? (NOT) What do you want to drink with snacks?

  • Maintain a predictable schedule:
  • Use a nonverbal cue to direct the student's attention to you before presenting the direction

    Example: Hand the student pictures showing what you will be discussing.

  • Explicitly define the purpose of the lesson and/or the student's expectation
    Example: Work system with containers and finished folder for task for younger children.
    Example: Explain what you expect on a writing assignment: Say, "Before you turn this into me, check that all the things on this list are complete."
        [ ] Sentences begin with capital letters
        [ ] Sentences end with a (. ? !)
        [ ] Known words are spelled correctly
        [ ] The sentences make sense
        Yes or No I read the sentences back to myself and they make sense, my writing is neat, and I tried my best.

  • Have the student restate the directions in their own words to check for their understanding.
  • Establish a consistent Behavior Management Plan.
  • When giving a direction, avoid using phrases "I want you to ..." to limit the triggers for power struggles.
    Example: 'Morning Work Time' class schedule

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